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I-Biromantic yigama elisetshenziselwa ukuchaza umuntu othola ukukhangwa kokubili abesilisa nabesifazane. Isiqalo esithi "bi" sibhekisela kokubili, okubonisa ukuthi abantu abathandana bebodwa bayakwazi ukwakha ukuxhumana okungokomzwelo nokuzwa uthando lothando kubantu babo bobabili ubulili. . Njengokuthambekela kwezocansi, ukuzijwayeza kwezothando kuyisici esijulile somuntu siqu nesomuntu ngamunye. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi iziqondiso zothando nezocansi zingahluka ngaphandle kokunye. Umuntu angase ahlonze njenge-biromantic kodwa abe nendlela yocansi ehlukile, njengokuba nobulili obuhlukile, ubungqingili, abathandana nobulili obufanayo, noma abathandana nabobulili obufanayo. Ukuthambekela kwezothando kugxile kuphela emandleni okuthola ukukhangwa, kuyilapho ukukhetha ocansini kuhlobene nesifiso sokuya ocansini. ukuzwa ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo, ukusondelana, kanye nemizwa yothando ngokunganaki ubulili.Lokhu kuthambekela akugcini kubantu be-cisgender kuphela; kuhlanganisa nabantu abashintsha ubulili kanye nabangewona kanambambili. I-Biromanticism igqamisa uketshezi nokwehlukahlukana kwemizwa yothando, ibona ukuthi uthando nokuxhumana kungeqa imingcele yobulili. Umbono owodwa oyiphutha ovamile mayelana nabantu abathandanayo ukuthi baziphatha kabi ngokwemvelo noma abakwazi ukwakha ubudlelwano obuzibophezele, besikhathi eside. Lokhu kucabangela kanye nokucwaswa akulungile futhi akunembile. Abantu be-Biromantic, njenganoma ubani omunye, bangaba nohlu lokuthandwa kobudlelwane, kusukela kokuphola nje ukuya ebudlelwaneni bomuntu oyedwa kanye nokuvula ubudlelwano. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuthambekela kwezothando akunqumi ukuziphatha noma izindinganiso zokuziphatha, kodwa kubonisa amandla azalwa nawo okuxhumana ngokomzwelo. Ukuqonda nokwamukela abantu abangabodwana be-biromantic kubalulekile ekudaleni umphakathi obandakanyayo nosekelayo. Njenganoma yikuphi okunye ukuthambekela kwezocansi noma ezothando, i-biromanticism kufanele ibe yejwayelekile futhi ihlonishwe. Abantu be-Biromantic bangase babhekane nezinselele eziyingqayizivele kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho ekuphileni kwabo kwansuku zonke, okufana ne-biphobia, ubandlululo, nokuntuleka kokumelela noma ukubonakala kwabezindaba nasemphakathini. Ukudala izindawo eziphephile nokukhuthaza ukuqonda kubalulekile ekukhuthazeni ukulingana nokuhlukahluka. Uhambo lokuzizitholela lomuntu othanda izinto eziphilayo lungahluka kuye ngesizinda sakhe, isiko, kanye nezimo zomuntu siqu. Abanye abantu bangase bazizwe benomuzwa osheshayo wokuhlonza leli gama, kanti abanye bangathatha isikhathi ukuhlola imizwa yabo nezinto ezihehayo. Kubalulekile ukuba nesineke futhi ube nomqondo ovulekile lapho uxoxa futhi uqonda indlela yothando yomunye umuntu, njengoba kungaba isihloko esijulile somuntu siqu nesibucayi. Abantu be-Biromantic bavame ukuthola induduzo nomuzwa womphakathi ngaphakathi kwezikhala ze-LGBTQ+, lapho bengakwazi ukuxhumana nabanye ababa nakho nemizwa efanayo. Lezi zindawo zihlinzeka ngendawo esekelayo lapho abantu bengaziveza ngokukhululekile, babelane ngezindaba zabo, futhi bathole ukwamukelwa. Imiphakathi eku-inthanethi, amaqembu enkundla yezokuxhumana, nezinhlangano ze-LGBTQ+ zingadlala indima ebalulekile ekunikezeni izinsiza, isiqondiso, nokuxhumana kwabantu abathandanayo abathandanayo abafuna ukuqonda nokusekelwa. Sekukonke, ukukhomba njenge-biromantic kuyisici esibalulekile sokuzitholela wena kanye nokuzamukela kubantu abaningi. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela nokuhlonipha ukwehlukahlukana kwezindlela zothando, ukuqonda ukuthi abantu bangazizwa bekhangwa futhi bethandwa ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene. Ngokuphromotha ukubandakanywa kanye nokukhuthaza umphakathi owazisayo nohloniphayo konke ukuthambekela kwezothando, singahlakulela umhlaba owamukela kakhudlwana futhi onozwela kuwo wonke umuntu.