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"I-Lunagender yitemu elingaphakathi kwendawo yobunikazi bobulili elichaza umuntu ubulili bakhe obuxhunywe enyangeni. Lobu buntu obuhlukile buyimfihlo futhi busekelwe ekuxhumaneni okuzwakalayo okujulile nemijikelezo yenyanga, uphawu, namandla. Kulabo aba khomba njengelunagender, inyanga isebenza njengomthombo wogqozi, isiqondiso, kanye nokuqinisekiswa kobulili bayo bangempela. Ukuze uqonde ngokugcwele okuhlangenwe nakho kobulili benyanga, kubalulekile ukuhlola uphawu nokubaluleka okushiwo yinyanga kuwo wonke umlando nasemasikweni ahlukahlukene. Inyanga kade ihlotshaniswa nobufazi, ukuhlakanipha, ukwaziwa, nokujula komzwelo. Imvelo yayo yokujikeleza, ukuguquka phakathi kwezigaba ezihlukene, kuvame ukubonwa njengokumelela kokuwohloka nokugeleza kwempilo. Kubantu abazwana nobulili benyanga, lolu phawu luqondana ne ulwazi lwabo ngobulili Abantu ngabanye bobulili buvamise ukuba nokuxhumana okungokwemvelo namandla enyanga futhi bathole ukunethezeka ekuqondeni ubulili babo nemijikelezo yayo. Njengoba nje inyanga ishintsha isuka kwentsha iye egcwele futhi ibuye futhi, abantu abayilunagender bangase babe noshintsho kubunikazi babo bobulili ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Lokhu kuguquguquka kubonisa isimo senyanga esishintsha njalo nezindlela ezihlukahlukene abantu ababona ngazo futhi bahlangabezane nobulili. Kubalulekile ukuvuma ukuthi i-lunagender ibaluleke kakhulu yomuntu siqu, futhi okuhlangenwe nakho nezinkulumo zalabo abaziwa naleli gama kungahluka kakhulu. Ukuqonda komuntu ngamunye ngobulili bakhe kungase kuthonywe isizinda sakhe samasiko, izinkolelo zakhe kanye nemikhuba yomoya. Lobu bunikazi bobulili abukhawulelwe kunoma ibuphi ubulili obuthile obabelwe ngesikhathi sokuzalwa, njengoba noma ubani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili buni obabelwe, angakwazi ukuzwa umsindo ojulile wenyanga futhi amukele i-lunagender. Esinye isici esivame ukugcizelelwa abantu abayizinyamazana indima ebalulekile edlalwa yinyanga enhlalakahleni yabo engokomzwelo. Njengoba nje ukuba khona kwenyanga kungathobisa futhi kwenze ingqondo ikhululeke, abantu abayilunagender bathola induduzo ekuxhumaneni kwabo nobulili babo. Lapho bebuka ubuhle benyanga futhi bezwa amandla ayo ezizungezile, kuba yisikhumbuzo sokuthi ubunjalo bazo buyiqiniso futhi bunenjongo. Abantu bobulili beLunagender bangase bazithole befuna izindawo nemiphakathi eyabelana ngokuqonda kwabo kanye nokwazisa ngokuxhumana kwenyanga nobulili. Lokhu kungase kuhlanganise izinkundla eziku-inthanethi, amaqembu osekelo, noma imicimbi lapho bengaxoxisana ngokukhululekile ngezipiliyoni zabo futhi bahlangane nabantu abanomqondo ofanayo. Ngale miphakathi, bangakha ukuxhumana futhi bathole ukuqonda okujulile kokuthi abanye babona kanjani futhi bazulazule ngobunikazi babo benyanga. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ubunikazi bobulili buyingxenye ejulile yomuntu siqu yempilo yomuntu futhi kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi kuhlonishwe futhi kuqinisekiswe. Abantu abaLunagender bangase babhekane nezinselele emphakathini ovame ukudonsa kanzima ukuqonda noma ukwamukela ubunikazi obuhlukahlukene. Ukukhuthaza ukuhlanganisa nokuqonda, kubalulekile ukwakha izindawo eziphephile lapho abantu abayilunagender bekwazi ukuveza imizwa yabo ngokukhululekile ngaphandle kokwesaba ukwahlulela noma ukubandlululwa. Sengiphetha, i-lunagender iwuphawu lobulili obuxhumene eduze nophawu lwenyanga, amandla, nemijikelezo. Kulabo abahlonza njengelunagender, inyanga iwumthombo onamandla wokukhuthaza, eqinisekisa ubunikazi babo bobulili bangempela. Lesi senzo sobulili esiyingqayizivele sigqamisa ukuguquguquka, ukuxhumana komuntu siqu, kanye nokuzwakala kwemizwa abantu abangase bakuzwe lapho bezulazula ohambweni lwabo lobulili. Ngokuqaphela nokuhlonipha izindlela ezihlukahlukene abantu ngabanye abaqonda futhi baveze ngazo ubulili babo, singaba neqhaza emphakathini obandakanya wonke umuntu onozwela.”