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I-Novigender yitemu elisha uma kuqhathaniswa emkhakheni wobunikazi bobulili kanye nenkulumo. Ingena ngaphansi kwesambulela esingelona kanambambili, esihlanganisa ukuhlonza okubanzi kobulili okunganamatheli ngokuqinile ekuqondeni okuvamile kanambambili kwabesilisa nabesifazane. Abantu be-Novigender ngabanye khomba njengabanokuhlangenwe nakho kobulili okuhlukile nokuhlukile okuhlukile kobulili obuvame ukwaziwa.Ukuze uqonde ngempela ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba novigender, kubalulekile ukubhekana nomxholo omkhulu wobulili nemithelela yawo emphakathini.Ubulili buqondwe ngokwesiko njengobubili umqondo, onezigaba ezimbili ezihlukene zowesilisa nowesifazane.Nokho, lokhu kuqonda kanambambili kuyahluleka ukuvuma ukwehluka nobunkimbinkimbi bokuhlangenwe nakho kwabantu.Abantu abaningi baye baba nomuzwa wokuthi uhlelo kanambambili aluvezi ngokunembile ukuqonda kwabo ngokwabo noma ubulili babo.Novigender abantu ngabanye baphonsela inselelo kokubili futhi bachaze ubulili babo ngendlela eyiqiniso kubo.Kunokuba baveze njengamadoda noma abesifazane, bamukela ukukhonjwa kobulili okukhona njengesigaba esihlukile nesihlukile. Lobu buwena abuyona nje inhlanganisela noma inhlanganisela yowesilisa nowesifazane, kodwa ukuzizwisa okuhlukile kobulili ngokwakho. Esinye sezici ezichazayo ze-novigender yinkululeko enikezayo ekuzichazeni. Abantu be-Novigender bane-ejensi yokubumba futhi bachaze ubunikazi babo bobulili. Lokhu kuvumela ukuqonda okuguquguqukayo okwengeziwe kobulili okudlula kanambambili evamile. Njengoba nje kunemithunzi eminingi ehlukene nemibala yombala ngale komnyama nomhlophe, kukhona futhi ukuhlonza ubulili okuhlukahlukene ngaphandle kowesilisa nowesifazane. Abantu be-Novigender bavame ukuchaza isipiliyoni sabo njengabantu besilisa noma abesifazane, kodwa njengento ehluke ngokuphelele. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi i-novigender iwukuzizwisa komuntu siqu futhi okucabangelayo, futhi ingahluka kumuntu ngamunye ozikhomba ngaleli gama. Kwabanye, kungase kube ubunikazi bobulili obuhluke ngokuphelele obungahlobene nowesilisa noma owesifazane, kanti kwabanye, kungase kube ubunikazi obungeyona kanambambili obuhlanganisa izici zakho kokubili ubudoda nobufazi. Esinye isici se-novigender yi-fluidity yayo engaba khona. Njengamanye ama-identity amaningi angewona kanambambili, i-novigender ingaba khona ku-spectrum. Lokhu kusho ukuthi abanye abantu bangase babone ubulili babo bumile futhi bungaguquki, kanti abanye bangase babe nomuzwa wokuthi ubulili babo buyashintshashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi noma ezimweni ezahlukene. Lokhu kuvumelana nezimo kuyisici esibalulekile se-novigender futhi kuvumela abantu ngabanye inkululeko yokuhlola nokuthola ulwazi lwabo lobulili oluhlukile. Ngokuphathelene nokuvezwa kobulili, abantu abangaba-novigender bangase baziveze ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene ezihambisana nobunikazi babo. Njengoba nje ubulili bungalingani nokubukeka komzimba, ngokufanayo no-novigender uyahlukana nalokho okulindelwe umphakathi ngendlela umuntu okufanele abukeke noma enze ngayo ngokusekelwe ebulilini. Abantu abanobulili obuhlukile bangase baveze ubunikazi babo ngezingubo, izinwele, imikhuba, kanye nokwethulwa okuphelele okuphambuka ezinkambisweni zomphakathi. Ukwesekwa nokuqonda kwabantu abangenabulili kanye nobunikazi babo kubalulekile. Njenganoma yiliphi elinye iqembu elikhishwe inyumbazana noma elingamelelwanga kahle, abantu abangashadile bavame ukubhekana nezinselele ezinjengokucwaswa, ukungaqondi kahle, nokusulwa komphakathi. Kubalulekile ukudala izikhala ezibandakanya wonke umuntu futhi uhlakulele isiko elihloniphayo nelivumayo ukufaneleka kobunikazi obuhlukahlukene bobulili, kuhlanganise novigender. Imfundo nokuqwashisa kudlala indima ebalulekile ekukhuthazeni ukwamukelwa nokulingana. Njengoba ukuqonda kwethu ubulili kuqhubeka nokuvela, i-novigender ivela njengegama elinika abantu amandla okuzakhela izindlela zabo futhi bachaze ubunikazi babo obuhlukile bobulili. Ukugqashula emigomeni yesistimu kanambambili, i-novigender inikeza umbono omusha ngemvelo eyinkimbinkimbi futhi enezici eziningi zobunikazi bomuntu. Ngokwamukela ukuhlukahluka nokuhlonipha okuhlangenwe nakho okuphilayo kwabo bonke abantu, singakha umphakathi obandakanya wonke umuntu futhi olinganayo wawo wonke umuntu.